There is truly nothing that makes me happier or brings me more joy than to share gardening with someone. It is twice as sweet when I help someone get into it. Apart from the fact that it makes me feel like I know my gardening shite, I love watching someone's mind expand with the realization of the many possibilities.
I had such an experience this weekend in Nassau. I went over for business on behalf of my brother Adam and stayed the weekend to spend time with him and meet his new girlfriend, Kat. I had a great time with them both. Not only was it wonderful to finally meet Kat and find her to be a sweetie, but she asked me to help her do some gardening!! She's in as far as I am concerned!
God bless her, she had already gotten everything we needed. Soil, pots and a spade along with the bulbs and seeds her Mum had given to her. A very health-conscious girl, her first priority was planting seeds for vegetables and herbs. However, upon beginning, we decided to look at the garden as a whole and make a plan for where these items would go. Needless to say, and despite being very hungover, we formulated a plan on how to best utilize the limited space and enhance the 1970's decor, inclusive of the slightly dingy pink walls enclosing the back porch. "Can't go wrong with a plan" was the order of the day.
Adam was asked to hang the bird feeders, nest and woolie, then got right into the spirit, beginning to weed out the backing flower beds overrun with mother-in-law's tongue. These tenacious plants had even broken many of the large green tiles situated as an extension to the green concrete porch. ( I did say 1970's decor!)
Plan firmly in our heads, (and me to commit to paper at a later date) we proceeded to pot and label the herb and vegetable seeds, lining them against the wall to get decent sun throughout the day. Had we had more time, ie not hungover, we would have ascertained the right areas for sun exposure by paying attention! C'est la vie, so we guesstimated.
Then we moved to planting the bulbs. Once done, we placed them under the covered area of the porch.Of course, I can't walk away without getting my hands in the dirt, so I weeded some of the mother-in-law's tongue and cleared an area, whereupon a small seagrape tree was discovered. With the area cleared and the seagrape in plain view, the garden began to be seen in a different light. We could actually see what it was going to become. A small sanctuary for parties, dinners, meditation, yoga, hanging out or just reading. Kat's cat Taj had a ball outside with us and has truly discovered his outside cat persona.
Before it got too dark, we decided to take a ride to see some property Adam is going to be building on. On the way there, I was looking around at the great foliage Nassau has. It is nothing like the "rock with some scrub on it" Freeport is. It has more varied terrain and soil, boasting some of the prettiest colonial style houses, a true island feel. Just as I began to convey to Kat the possibilities of clippings, she laughed and said she was thinking that Adam was going to be coming home one day from work and see her on the side of the road taking clippings. She is well and truly bit by the gardening bug!
That night we ate a wonderful meal Kat prepared on the garden patio . I look forward to my next visit to see how Kat's garden grows.